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Memory care in Lilly offers 24-hour care and supervision, trained staff, and specialized activities to accommodate the needs of seniors with Alzheimer’s or dementia. These communities typically offer advanced security features and engaging activities to help ensure residents’ well-being. The cost of memory care in Lilly is about $4,804 per month. To find the best memory care options for your needs and budget, browse the 14 communities, read 355 reviews of families’ experiences, and learn about available services and amenities. 

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Photo of Chesapeake Place Senior Living
2525 Photos available
44 Floor plans available
9.3
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I am very happy with the staff, and the overall quality, and condition of Chesapeake Place. Very clean and pleasant. My mom absolutely loves it there! I highly recommend it! It was very easy getting ...
Provides: Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
At Chesapeake Place Senior Living, we deliver the highest quality care and an engaging, joyful lifestyle every day. Whether you are seeking Assisted Living, Memory Care, or Respite Care for yourself or your loved one, we are ready to meet you on your life’s journey. With an incredible team of...
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Photo of Commonwealth Senior Living at Georgian Manor
1212 Photos available
55 Floor plans available
9.2
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The staff is very knowledgeable and helpful. They are patient, and they will answer all of your questions without making you feel rushed or unimportant. They provide regular updates on your family member....
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Commonwealth Senior Living at Georgian Manor - Located in the refined and beautiful River Walk community of Chesapeake, Georgian Manor is situated within 10 miles of Chesapeake Regional Medical Center, and its many adjacent medical offices. Georgian Manor is also convenient to the Battlefield...
Photo of Viva Memory Care at Chesapeake
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22 Floor plans available
9.0
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62 reviews
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62 reviews
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Staff has been helpful and has made my grandma comfortable. The different sides (wings) they had 1 side that is geared more toward people with dementia that are further gone, which i felt was important for...
Provides: Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
At Viva Memory Care at Chesapeake we’re deeply committed to both our residents and their families. Our highly specialized and free-standing memory care is located in Chesapeake, VA, only 7 miles from Norfolk and 60 miles from Williamsburg. We think your loved one will feel at home in our private...
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Photo of Harmony at Oakbrooke
99 Photos available
2020 Floor plans available
7.9
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39 reviews
7.9
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39 reviews
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My brother loves it at Harmony! He has made some friends and has a variety of activities if he wants things to do. Very friendly atmosphere. I love many of residents and enjoy visiting with them also.
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care, Independent Living
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Welcome to Harmony at OakbrookeIndependent Living | Assisted Living | Memory CareIn our continued effort to meet the demand of seniors in Chesapeake, Virginia, we are offering Virtual Tours, an enhanced screening procedure for new residents, along with the security, support, services and...
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Photo of Brookdale Elizabeth City
1111 Photos available
22 Floor plans available
7.7
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21 reviews
7.7
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21 reviews
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Everything is great at Brookdale, except we would like to see more activities - especially in the evenings and on the weekends.
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Define your day, every day.As you get older, you sometimes need a little help. Here we can help you with the little things—like simple housekeeping and meals—and with bathing and getting dressed, too. With assisted living and memory care on one campus, we customize your care to meet your specific...
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Photo of Commonwealth Senior Living at Cedar Manor
1212 Photos available
44 Floor plans available
7.5
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25 reviews
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My mom is level 2 dementia and we had a mishappening, I rang the bell several times for help and after 25 minutes I went in search of a nurse after I found one it took another 10 minutes for them to come to...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Cedar Manor Assisted Living is an affiliate of Chesapeake Regional Medical Center. Cedar Manor offers a comfortable, supportive atmosphere to enjoy your independence in a secure, peaceful, wooded setting. Each private suite features kitchenettes, individual climate control and bathrooms with...
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Whether for you or a loved one, Currituck House offers a caring atmosphere, an active community, and a comfortable, secure lifestyle for our residents. Here at Currituck House, each member of our community enjoys the opportunity to 'live life their way'. Our valued residents enjoy assistance...
Photo of The Vero at Chesapeake Senior Living
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7.0
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The facility is beautiful. I believe there was a management change just as my husband moved in and some other staff members left and there were some staffing challenges especially in the dining room and...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
The Vero at Chesapeake brings the historic and vibrant spirit of coastal Virginia to senior living. With a range of options that includes Independent-Style Living, Assisted Living, and Memory Care, our residents have access to everything they need for a life with joy and purpose.We are...
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I couldn’t be happier with the care my Dad has received at Dominion Village at Chesapeake! This is a smaller facility but that is exactly why I picked this for my father. We have been happy with everyone...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Welcome to Dominion Village of Chesapeake, a Five Star Senior Living community! Located in the heart of Deep Creek and easily accessible to all major thoroughfares, we have created a small neighborhood where staff have the unique opportunity to develop relationships with each resident and family....
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Waterbrooke of Elizabeth City is a 130 bed assisted living community that emphasizes excellence in resident care while promoting dignity, respect and independence.  We offer services that are rarely offered in other communities, including an in-house physician, in-house psychiatrist, and a...
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Lav'm Adult Residence Lav'm Adult Residence is an assisted living community located in Chesapeake, Virginia. The community is located in a mostly residential area with a few businesses, which creates a quiet, home-like setting for the community's residents without sacrificing nearby conveniences....
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
Care types provided by this community
Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Colonial Home is a quaint 32 bed home located in the Deep Creek section of Chesapeake.  We serve a private pay resident in a home environment.  Colonial Home serves both ambulatory and non-ambulatory residents and offers a full range of care, including rehabilitation services, home health care...

Cost of memory care in Lilly, NC

The average cost of senior living in Lilly is $4,804 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Severn, NC with an average of $3,967 per month.

Average monthly cost of Memory Care in Lilly, NC vs. nearby cities

Lilly, NC
$4,804/mo
$4,868/mo

Average monthly cost of Memory Care in Lilly, NC vs. the state and national average

Lilly, NC
$4,804/mo
U.S. national average
$5,483/mo

Average monthly cost of Memory Care in Lilly vs. other types of senior living

Memory Care
$4,804/mo

Median monthly costs of Memory Care in Lilly, NC by room type

Semi-Private
$5,493/mo
Studio
$5,934/mo
1 Bedroom
$5,323/mo
2 Bedroom
$6,489/mo

Average cost of Memory Care in Lilly over time

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What families are saying about memory care in Lilly

Recent reviews for memory care in Lilly

Harmony at Independence in Virginia Beach, VA

5.0
I would highly recommend it. My best friend recently had her loved one move into this community, and we both love it for our loved ones. The community is on the newer side, and it is beautiful. They have several activities, and my loved on participates in the happy hour, that occurs three ...
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Chesapeake Place Senior Living

4.1
Like all assisted living facilities it's difficult to move a love one into someone else's care. But sometimes has to be done! The staff is great at Chesapeake place- sometimes the communication is not the greatest - leaving messages and nobody calls back! The move in process was great. [Name ...
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Commonwealth Senior Living at Georgian Manor in Chesapeake, VA

5.0
They do a wonderful job at engaging the seniors. My father is content, has picked up weight, and is far happier and pleasant to be with. The variety has been good for him I would definitely recommend Commonwealth to others

Lilly review score based on 74 family reviews

7.3
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This proprietary review score is based on 74 reviews of 13 Lilly memory care communities. All reviews were submitted in the past two years by verified community residents and family members.
The Lilly review score informs your search by letting you see at a glance how memory care residents and family members rate memory care in your area. Compare review scores in multiple locations to understand how overall satisfaction rates differ from city to city. Based on recent reviews, the maximum possible score is 10.Methodology: How we calculate our city review scores

Lilly review score compared against nearby cities

7.3
Lilly, NC13 facilities
7.7
Elizabeth City, NC45 facilities
7.6
Winfall, NC41 facilities

Review subcategories for Lilly memory care

When memory care residents and family members submit a review on our site, they rate each community on categories such as cleanliness, activities, meals, and more. The chart below is based on 74 reviews of 13 Lilly memory care communities. This chart helps you compare Lilly resident and family memory care satisfaction rates against national averages. Use it to assess your needs and develop criteria for your own search. If you know that one of these categories is important to you or your loved one, our senior living advisors can help you find communities to match your needs.
Lilly, NC averageNational average
Cleanliness
4.2
4.4
Friendliness
4.3
4.5
Care services
3.7
4.2
Staff
4.2
4.4
Meals & dining
3.7
4.1
Activities
3.9
4.0
Value for cost*
3.8
4.1
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Lilly memory care services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Lilly memory care communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Lilly, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select care services in Lilly memory care

Memory care communities offer a variety of care services and visiting health care providers to meet seniors’ health needs. The chart below shows the percentage of memory care partners in Lilly that offer these care services compared to the percentage of partners that offer them nationally.
Lilly, NCNational
Full medication management
Full medication management
76.9%
65.5%
Doctor on call
Doctor on call
53.8%
48.3%
24-Hour awake staff
24-Hour awake staff
92.3%
82.3%
Diabetic care
Diabetic care
92.3%
98.8%
*Visiting health care professionals
*Visiting health care professionals
69.2%
71.8%
Home care agency on-site
Home care agency on-site
30.8%
28.6%
Non-ambulatory care
Non-ambulatory care
92.3%
89.6%
Respite or short term stays
Respite or short term stays
61.5%
61.3%
Hospice available on-site
Hospice available on-site
84.6%
72%
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*Including nurse, dentist, OT, PT, speech or podiatrist

Availability of select dementia care services in Lilly memory care

Our community partners provide many services to keep residents with dementia or other memory concerns safe and engaged. Below, take a look at what percentage of Lilly Memory Care partners offer the selected dementia care services compared to the percentage of partners nationally.
Lilly, NCNational
Dementia behaviors care
Dementia behaviors care
69.2%
74.2%
Specialized memory care training for staff
Specialized memory care training for staff
69.2%
46.4%
Secured community and/or wander guard
Secured community and/or wander guard
69.2%
70.3%
Memory care only community
Memory care only community
38.5%
26.5%
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Availability of select dietary accommodations in Lilly memory care

Memory care communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Lilly partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
Lilly, NCNational
Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
46.2%
28.1%
Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
53.8%
44.9%
No sugar
No sugar
53.8%
41.8%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
46.2%
50.5%
Pureed meals
Pureed meals
46.2%
19.4%
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Availability of select dining options in Lilly memory care

Our memory care communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Lilly communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
Lilly, NCNational
Professional chef
Professional chef
30.8%
32.2%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
61.5%
40.3%
Room service
Room service
46.2%
37.4%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
30.8%
23.3%
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Availability of select programs and activities in Lilly memory care

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered memory care communities in Lilly offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
Lilly, NCNational
Activity director
Activity director
61.5%
46%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
53.8%
33.8%
Community service programs
Community service programs
38.5%
28.8%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
76.9%
54.4%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
69.2%
51.9%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
61.5%
61.1%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
46.2%
39.9%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
30.8%
35.5%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
46.2%
36.9%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
69.2%
47.7%
Live performances
Live performances
61.5%
48%
Dances
Dances
46.2%
31.8%
Fitness center
Fitness center
23.1%
22.2%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
69.2%
46.8%
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There are 14 memory care facilities near Lilly, North Carolina. See the full list.

The 14 memory care facilities near you in Lilly, North Carolina typically provide housing, therapies, and care tailored to those who have Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia. To find memory care in Lilly, North Carolina, browse our detailed listings showing photos, floor plans, amenities, activities, and reviews from real families.

Browse A Place for Mom’s listings for memory care in Lilly, North Carolina, to take a virtual tour. Our local senior living experts can arrange for a live tour of these communities as well.

The cost of memory care facilities in Lilly, North Carolina ranges from $465 to $11100. The average Memory Care cost in Lilly, North Carolina is $4,804. Prices often vary based on care provided, amenities, unit size, and more. 

The cost of memory care in Lilly, North Carolina typically starts at $465. A Place for Mom’s local, expert senior living advisors can help you find affordable memory care facilities near you and offer advice on how to lower costs and pay for care with VA benefits or public payment options.

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