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Independent Living in Delaware

Overview of Independent Living in Delaware

Families considering senior living in Delaware will find themselves in a unique position. Of all its neighboring Northeastern U.S. states, Delaware is one of the smallest in area but also one of the most densely populated, and its residents are never too far from a coastline. Beyond the variety of outdoor recreation provided by the Atlantic shores or Chesapeake and Delaware Bays, Delaware’s largest metropolitan area, Wilmington, is well-connected to other major cities like Philadelphia, Baltimore, and Washington, D.C. Of course, historic sites are plentiful throughout the state, as Delaware took the lead among colonies signing the U.S. Constitution in 1787 and therefore is known as “The First State.” Retirement in Delaware may mean fewer options for senior living, but opportunities are always nearby.

The median monthly cost of independent living in Delaware is about $2,500.

A Place for Mom’s Senior Living Advisors can provide you with a list of independent living communities in Delaware to help you find one that fits your needs and budget.

Top-rated Independent Living facilities in Delaware

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Foulk Living

1212 Foulk Rd, Wilmington, DE 19803
9.6
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42 reviews
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$X,XXX/mo
Anonymous - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

Because there have issues with housekeeping not cleaning my mom's apartment, nor doing her laundry on a timely basis. Also the food service has been horrible at times. My mom thinks the food is good, but the...

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Lorelton

2200 West 4th Street, Wilmington, DE 19805
9.5
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133 reviews
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$X,XXX/mo
Anonymous - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

I give The Lorelton a 5 for each category. The only thing that could improve is the windows in my mom's room. They are old and need to be replaced, which I have been told is going to happen in the near...

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Forwood Manor

1912 Marsh Rd, Wilmington, DE 19810
9.5
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30 reviews
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$X,XXX/mo
Ellen E - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

We are so grateful to have found this fine place for our family member. Every step of the way there was great info, consistent support, and for every question a clear and readily available answer. After 6...

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Top-rated Independent Living facilities in Middletown

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Traditions of Cross Keys

3152 Glassboro Cross Keys Rd, Glassboro, NJ 08028
9.8
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75 reviews
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$X,XXX/mo
Todd L - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

The staff at Traditions in Glassboro NJ treated my mother with amazing love and care. Mom spent her last few months of life living there and the staff and management were so loving to her it really was a...

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Merrill Gardens at West Chester

1201 Ward Ave, West Chester, PA 19380
9.8
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61 reviews
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$X,XXX/mo
Charles - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

After researching several senior communities and visiting many of them, my brother chose Merrill Gardens at West Chester. [name removed] was wonderful - she led us through two separate and comprehensive...

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Morningside House of Exton

200 Sunrise Boulevard, Exton, PA 19341
9.7
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68 reviews
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Roger R - I'm a current/former resident or client

I've lived here for over 6 years, and would give it two thumbs up. The food is good, the staff comes to help me when I need assistance, the activities are fun and I like to get out on the bus outings...

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Top-rated Independent Living facilities in Wilmington

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Lorelton

2200 West 4th Street, Wilmington, DE 19805
9.5
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133 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Anonymous - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

I give The Lorelton a 5 for each category. The only thing that could improve is the windows in my mom's room. They are old and need to be replaced, which I have been told is going to happen in the near...

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Traditions of Cross Keys

3152 Glassboro Cross Keys Rd, Glassboro, NJ 08028
9.8
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75 reviews
Starting at
$X,XXX/mo
Todd L - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

The staff at Traditions in Glassboro NJ treated my mother with amazing love and care. Mom spent her last few months of life living there and the staff and management were so loving to her it really was a...

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Merrill Gardens at West Chester

1201 Ward Ave, West Chester, PA 19380
9.8
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61 reviews
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$X,XXX/mo
Charles - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

After researching several senior communities and visiting many of them, my brother chose Merrill Gardens at West Chester. [name removed] was wonderful - she led us through two separate and comprehensive...

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Top-rated Independent Living facilities in Rehoboth Beach

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The Lodge at Truitt Homestead

36233 Farm Ln, Rehoboth Beach, DE 19971
8.5
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4 reviews
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Anonymous - I live or lived in this community

Staff is exceptionally competent and helpful and friendly. To make this place exceptional one must use the facilities, the classes and travel opportunities. It is two miles from the Rehaboth Beach Boardwalk....

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Brandywine Seaside Pointe by Monarch

36101 Seaside Blvd., Rehoboth Beach, DE 19971
8.0
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14 reviews
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$X,XXX/mo
Anonymous - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

The observant and caring nature of the aides/caregivers. The caregivers treat all residents as individuals and cater to their needs as individuals. They know each resident as a person and treat them with...

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Brookdale Cape May

591 Route 9 South, Cape May Court House, NJ 08210
9.9
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41 reviews
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$X,XXX/mo
Elizabeth - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

The phone call that changed our lives. [name removed] answered our call the day I began my search for my Mom's new home. She invited me to come to the community & see for myseld what they had to offer....

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Top-rated Independent Living facilities in Dover

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Brookdale Dover

150 Saulsbury Road, Dover, DE 19904
9.2
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52 reviews
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Donna D - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

My father was a resident at Brookdale Dover for 6 years. During his stay he was well cared for. His medications were dispensed. All meals provided. Housekeeping kept his apt. clean and tidy. The staff was...

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Dover Place

1203 Walker Rd, Dover, DE 19904
9.0
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32 reviews
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Donald E - I'm a loved one of a resident or client

The aids are always friendly and polite. They take very good care of my mother-in-law. They have plenty of activities. that keep them busy. The cost is very high. The building is showing at age. The...

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Harmony at Kent

1435 E Lebanon Rd, Dover, DE 19901
8.5
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42 reviews
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$X,XXX/mo
Anonymous - I live or lived in this community

Location and recommendation from first ex-wife and easy to break lease. New physical plant and place I wanted was twice price of Harmony At Kent. More is promised in contract than is delivered IMHO.

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Delaware laws and regulations for independent living communities

Delaware independent living options include stand-alone facilities and those that are combined with assisted living. Stand-alone independent living communities don’t need to be licensed, but assisted living facilities must be licensed and inspected by the Department of Health and Social Services’ Division of Health Care Quality.[01] Depending on what type of community you move into, you’ll be protected by certain health and safety regulations, as well as rights as a renter in Delaware.

Regulations for combined communities

If you move into a combined independent living and assisted living community, the following regulations may apply:[02]

  • The facility must provide laundry and housekeeping services.
  • Staff must organize social and leisure activities.
  • Seniors must be offered three daily meals plus snacks each day of the week, with a nutritionist or dietician overseeing the menu.
  • Seniors can live in a private unit or a unit with one roommate.
  • The facility must have at least one bathroom for every four seniors.

For an in-depth overview of all regulations, visit our Delaware assisted living laws and regulations page.

Renters’ rights

Since most independent living arrangements are rentals, you have rights similar to renting a traditional apartment. First, Delaware senior living facilities must give you a written statement before you sign a contract. If you move into a combined independent living and assisted living community, you may expect the following details in your statement:[02]

  • Costs
  • Payment policies
  • Resident rights
  • Community responsibilities
  • Complaint procedures

Even if you choose a stand-alone independent living community, you still have rights as a renter, or tenant. The landlord or administrator responsibilities below may apply to your community:[03]

  • They have to maintain all facilities, such as electrical and plumbing.
  • They’re responsible for making repairs.
  • They must keep all grounds and common areas in clean and safe condition.

View the full Delaware Resident Landlord-Tenant Code for more information

Accessibility requirements

Seniors with disabilities have additional rights and protections when renting an independent living unit. First, the State of Delaware Architectural Accessibility Standards lists several guidelines that buildings must meet in order to be accessible to everyone:[04]

  • When disability-friendly units are above ground level, the building has to have an elevator.
  • Bathrooms must be accessible to people with disabilities.
  • There must be a certain number of accessible parking spaces for the number of typical spaces.
  • All buildings on the same site or campus should be connected by an accessible route.

You’ll also have protections under the Fair Housing Act and the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), including the right to reasonable modifications and accommodations. Reasonable modifications include physical changes that make it easier for you to use your unit, such as wider doorways and bathroom grab bars. Reasonable accommodations include changes to community policies, such as allowing you to live with a service animal or assigning an accessible parking space.[05]

Delaware Department of Health contact information

Delaware Department of Health and Social Services
Division of Services for Aging and Adults with Physical Disabilities

Phone: 1-800-223-9074

Email: delawareADRC@delaware.gov

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Survey reports

Finding the most recent license and inspection information on a community you’re interested in may bring you peace of mind. The Department of Health and Social Services’ Division of Health Care Quality inspects, or surveys, assisted living facilities once a year and in the event a complaint is filed.[06] If your prospective independent living community is combined with an assisted living community, you can view this information online.

Visit the Survey Reports for Assisted Living Facilities page to browse the list of communities and their survey reports. Under each community, you’ll see annual survey reports, complaint survey reports, or both. In most cases, the annual report is the one with the most recent information.

References

  1. Delaware Department of Health and Social Services. Health care quality.

  2. Delaware Compendium of Residential Care and Assisted Living Regulations and Policy. 2015 ed. Assisted Living Facility.

  3. Residential Landlord-Tenant Code, 25 § 5301 et seq. (2024).

  4. State of Delaware Executive Department Office of Management and Budget. (2009). State of Delaware architectural accessibility standards.

  5. U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. Reasonable accommodations and modifications.

  6. Delaware Department of Health and Social Services. Survey reports for assisted living facilities.

Top cities in Delaware for independent living

8.6
Dover, DE
7 facilities
8.4
Rehoboth Beach, DE
38 facilities
8.4
Lewes, DE
6 facilities
8.3
Georgetown, DE
8 facilities
7.8
Middletown, DE
292 facilities
7.6
Wilmington, DE
37 facilities

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